I LIKED THIS BREAK UP LETTER... THIS IS WAT ALMOST HAPPENING IN OUR CAMPUS.... ATLEAST FEW GAL FRNDS WIL COMMENT ON IT!!
WIYH LOVE,
TYSON THEJ
Dear Breakup Girl,
For the duration of our nine-month relationship, my ex gal frnd tried to convince me that we were “meant to be.” Without warning or reason, she then dumps me citing the “I love you but am not ‘in love’ with you” excuse. Whatever. Aside from one business like conversation,she gave 2 days to take decision.{frnd or lover} (and an angry follow up phone call on my part), we have not spoken after that. I am over her and the break up was definitely for the best, but I wonder now if this was the most healthy way to handle things. Although the lack of contact helped the healing process, would it have been better to have long, painful phone conversations analyzing what went wrong just so I have a clue? Do you advocate the “cold turkey”/no contact approach even in the absence of a concrete breakup explanation?
